Saturday, December 25, 2010

Bad Reps For Disability Lawyers, Guardian Ad Litems?

I am a new attorney, trying to eke out a side practice in law while staying in my old job. Don't know whether I will practice law full time or not. Most times I do want to go full time, but can't figure out how to do that. Especially in this economy; especially since I am single and there is no other income or person who provides benefits

Two of the legal areas I am interested in are disability law and juvenile guardian ad litem work. I am already a disability lawyer, with a couple of clients. I like the work, but it is slow. I heard a judge say the other day that claimant representatives (lawyers) do not the have the best reputations with the judges. That they consider many disability lawyers to be lazy, etc. Some of that, apparently, is seen as an outgrowth of the slowness of the process, that it makes for bad lawyering. At least that is what he seemed to be saying.

Then the other day, I heard that an assistant DA said she had never seen a good guardian ad litem. I guess she sees a lot of them--I don't know for sure, but I guess she does; juvenile issues must creep into the domestic violence cases she handles.

But never seen a good guardian ad litem? That is pretty strong. Of course, that is just hearsay to me, as I didn't hear her say that; someone else just told me she said that.

I feel kind of depressed--both of my areas seem to be looked down on, at least from these two people. Yes, they are only two people, but their opinions carry a lot of weight.

Christmas Cookies As Gifts

I didn't have time to make Christmas cookies for gifts this year, so I had to buy all of my gifts. Which means of course that I spent too much money. Ouch. But I have made Christmas gifts in the past and want to do so again in the future, maybe next year. Part of the problem is knowing where to get good containers for cookies, whether you are giving them as gifts or for use at home. I am wanting to find some
great jars for cookies and treats, That way, if you give cookies in a nice jar, they get two gifts: the cookies and a cookie jar! Next year will be the year I am organized for Christmas.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Still Need To Lose Weight

I thought I had lost weight, but I tried on a couple of tops yesterday and guess what?? They didn't fit. I am so bummed. I know some clothes run small, and maybe this was the case. But still it bummed me out. I need to lose weight. I want to look pretty and be healthy, and this is the best way to accomplish both goals. I want to date again, and I know guys won't be interested until I lose some pounds. I am going to read up on some diet aids, maybe something like Lipofuze and others. Also, maybe some appetite suppressing teas.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

My Fledgling Law Career

I am still working full time at my old job and still doing a little bit of law on the side. My second disability case is coming up for a hearing sometime soon--don't have a date yet. In addition, I have written a petition to establish paternity and the court date for that is set. I may also work on a petition to terminate parental rights and then an adoption. (this is a horrible situation, and I want to help). The one case I have that I feel frustrated with is a short sale/deed in lieu. Someone had to quit paying her mortgage because of a hardship situation, and I am trying to oversee a short sale and if that doesn't work out, a deed in lieu. The problem is these large banks talk a big game, but then they do what they always do: foreclose. The good part is she doesn't want to keep the house, so that is not an issue. She just wants to have as little impact on her credit as possible.

The ramifications and seriousness of being a lawyer has really hit home These people are depending on me, and I have to give them my best. And I will.

Need Some Warmer Clothes

I am here in New England visiting my sister who just gave birth to twins. It is a lot colder up here than where I am from. I packed some of my warmer clothes, but I had gotten rid of most of warm clothes in my last closet clean out. So I realize now that my warmest clothes are not warm enough!

If I am going to visit a lot, and I am because of the babies, I need to buy some new winter clothes. I have been looking at things like North Face clothes and getting some ideas of what I might need. I need a new
winter coat or jacket, and I looked at some North Face jackets. A new coat is my number one need, but I will continue looking online and hitting the malls. I'd love to find a sale! And soon!

I like the look of boots, like Ugg boots, but I don't want to spend the money when I can't wear them much at home. So, I might just try to buy a coat and some new sweaters and warm-ups. I did notice on the website their North Face sports bras. Who would know! That is another item I need to buy. I can't even find my sports bras anymore.

Friday, December 10, 2010

Need An Updated Sink

Again, as I think ahead to hopefully one day renting out my condo, there are some things I need to do to update it. One is maybe get an updated cool sink. I have seen some interesting kitchen sinks when I have been out and about, and I need to check online too. Would love to have a white porcelain sink, or a neat new metal one. Just need to go look and see what the new styles are. People love updated kitchens, so I need to get a new stove and dishwasher too. Maybe new cabinet? Oh dear. More money needed!

Updating My Condo

I am really getting into the nesting mode, which is good for me, as that is usually not the case. I am starting to sort out, clean out and get clutter free. Yippee! Not there yet, but am definitely working on it. Things I need to get for my condo as soon as possible: new dishwasher, new toilet, shelving for my laundry room, new carpeting in hallway and bedrooms, and maybe some plantation shutters. Plus getting a new kitchen table and maybe a new sofa. Whew! I need to hit the consignment shops and garage sales to try to save money. Here's to a new, cooler space in 2011!